harried, bedraggled, already late for work, you can do your best to be patient, as the children scramble out of the car juggling school backpacks and soccer equipment, when your kids tube "where is my lunch?" Oh, shoot. In the refrigerator, where it was his lunch. You eliminate the purse, grab some bills and push them to the child, "I'm sorry, honey. Here are some lunch money. I must go. I love you." As you maneuver your way out of a cramped school drop-off area, look at this elegant SUV, driven by equally elegant mom.
you can grind your teeth. How did she do it? She has 3 children, just like you, but unlike you, she is unflustered, her car is immaculate, it was flawless, hair, makeup, everything is perfect and in place, you could kill. Or alone.
to get to work. Your manager went into his workspace, collects the latest effort, a critical eye sweeps over the usual mess: "It would be nice if you got your projects in some semblance of order." "I get the job done!" whether to publish defensively. "Yes, I know. Think how much better you'll do if I could find something easier, like Lynn," Your manager says, laughing all the neat Lynn as leaves. Lynn smiles at you. Pertly. You like to keep the language to her, but she would probably just laugh at it.
you'll feel less than, defeated reduced. Your sense of self is miserable.
Before you succumb completely to the pity party, how about a reality check? The reality is that a human being in order, with its own set of talents and vještine.Stvarnost is that the only thing you beat is your comparison of myself to others . And frankly, themselves in relation to other damning every time. It does not matter whether you leave the sweet scent of icky, the comparison can be hurt. It was a pain with you, "I'm not good enough", which is the choice you've made here, or to hurt others with "They're not good enough", which led to great pain, personal and social.
a step further away than the other. Period. If someone shows the behavior you admire, work on adopting it for yourself, but do not be tried for it already has this behavior.
focus on one of your talents, skills and behaviors that are proud. Buff up those that are brilliance of high gloss, use them well.
There is a reason that we are all unique: life is much more fun that way. It has accumulated a diversity of talent that has made this world a rich, complex and wonderful place that is, for all of us.
be you! There is no one quite like you.
